I could answer this question with a lot of people. But I think it’s best to not overthink the question and just give the first answer that comes into my mind and heart - John Hawkins. I met John in the fall of 1992. I was at TCU and was leading a ministry on campus....
FathersDay
Fathers and Sons: What do I believe, see, think, and want?
What do I believe? God created family before any other institution…even the church. The role of fathers in the lives of theirs sons and daughters cannot be underestimated. We all need to be named, blessed, matured, and given our identity. This comes primarily (on...
What do I wish I had said at my father-in-law’s funeral?
My father-in-law died 4 years ago. Ever since then I’ve mulled over in my mind what I could possibly say that would do justice to a man I respect so much. After reflection and prayer this is the best that I’ve come up with for now. Someone said that my father-in-law,...
What’s the difference between history and story?
My dad is a great storyteller. His eyes light up and his gestures animate the scenes as he walks me through interesting drama from his childhood. He provides colorful detail, interesting character impressions, and always seems to be ready for the twist at the end....
What is the Legacy of Paul Hadley?
I have the privilege and responsibility of working with many leaders. We pull them away from their day-to-day environments, put them in front of their teams and talk about the V word: vulnerability. It’s a privilege because they allow us into a very sacred space. It’s...
What do I want to say to my Father on Father’s Day?
I love you Dad. I know you love me. I’m proud to be your son. I know you are proud of me. I’m sorry for the time we lost when I was younger. I’m glad the past years have been our best. Thank you for what you have given me. I hope I can honor you half and much as you...
What has my dad said to me? What does my heart now hear?
My father has a kind of subtle way of expressing himself. Growing up I don't think it was quite clear to me where he was coming from. Was he speaking from the heart or just being polite? He has a Mr. Rogers-like way of smiling and saying nice things. I mean that as a...