Relationships
Examples and stories from Family and Friends
Why do I have conversations with young men who are interested in my daughters?
I got this question recently and it made me think. Since this has been a long-term practice for me, I hadn’t really thought about it in a while, so I think this was a healthy exercise for me and my beliefs and convictions. I have to start this answer back at PineCove...
Why did I go ‘back’ to Scotland?
My name is William Gordon McCabe Blocker, whose mother is Katharine McCabe Blocker, who’s father is… William Gordon McCabe, whose father is… William Gordon McCabe, whose father is… William Gordon McCabe, whose father is… Reverend John Collins McCabe, whose wife was…...
What makes for the best friendships?
Some recent experiences with friends and colleagues led me to think about the word ‘reciprocity.’ When I hear the word I initially think of debt, obligation, or a transaction. We give something. So we want something back in equal amount. Pretty simple. We receive...
What’s the difference between membership and fellowship?
It’s often heard, “I’m a member of St. Francis Church” or “I’m a member of First Baptist Church” or “I’m a member of a non-denominational church.” We focus on our membership. We focus on what ‘choice’ we have carefully made of the church to which we belong. This is...
What do I wish I had said at my father-in-law’s funeral?
My father-in-law died 4 years ago. Ever since then I’ve mulled over in my mind what I could possibly say that would do justice to a man I respect so much. After reflection and prayer this is the best that I’ve come up with for now. Someone said that my father-in-law,...
What’s the difference between history and story?
My dad is a great storyteller. His eyes light up and his gestures animate the scenes as he walks me through interesting drama from his childhood. He provides colorful detail, interesting character impressions, and always seems to be ready for the twist at the end....
What do I want to say to my Father on Father’s Day?
I love you Dad. I know you love me. I’m proud to be your son. I know you are proud of me. I’m sorry for the time we lost when I was younger. I’m glad the past years have been our best. Thank you for what you have given me. I hope I can honor you half and much as you...
Why is my blog called wgmb.info?
I’ve got a very rich family history, but I’m way behind in knowing and understanding it. So, just as God has prompted me to the larger fellowship of the Catholic Church, He has also prompted me into a much richer fellowship with my extended family. This has led to a...
What Would I Say to Sandy if She Was Listening?
I didn't know my mother-in-law Sandy for long…about 3 years. But, I know her daughter and granddaughters well. They give me a glimpse of her beauty and character. I've been back to her graveside many times…starting about 2011. Something was drawing me back there. I’ve...