Reflections

What is the next holiday after Halloween?

What is the next holiday after Halloween?

All Hallows Eve (aka Halloween) is a very popular and well know holiday. It’s a big business too with a market that generates more revenue that every other American holiday than Christmas (sorry Easter Bunny you are second to pumpkins and candy). The ironing is that...

What have I learned about fasting?

What have I learned about fasting?

I woke up one morning recently at 5 am after a long season of fasting. These words literally hit me as I lay there in the dark. I could barely write them down fast enough as I fumbled to find something to write on. Later that morning I cleaned them up a bit at the...

What is my “therapy” in real life?

What is my “therapy” in real life?

It’s important to start this piece with a few disclaimers. It’s a bit hypocritical that I would write about therapy since I’ve been in therapy for the better part of my 28 years of marriage and more than half of my life. One time I tried to count all the therapists...

What do I do with the sin after I sin?

What do I do with the sin after I sin?

I sinned yesterday. Sounds pretty simple and probably expected. Happens every day, right? But I can't say that I confess my sins every day. And as I was confessing this particular sin, I realized something pretty significant. I realized that I sin a lot after I sin....

Why do I go to confess my sins?

Why do I go to confess my sins?

When I’ve sinned, made a huge mistake and feel guilty, even ashamed…my first inclination is probably not to go into a wooden box the size of a phone booth and spill my guts to a stranger dressed in black on the other side of a dark veil. Yes, it sounds comical to me...

What is the EKG of the soul?

What is the EKG of the soul?

When someone asks how I am doing, I respond often without even thinking, and with a very expected response. This is true in our culture. I reply by offering a quick assessment of circumstances in my life. I often give a rundown of other family members and what they’ve...